Today I want to talk about the wonderful blessings I have in the form of my husband and our marriage. We started seeing one and another back in May 2013 and we fell very deeply in love.
The next few months went by so fast because we all know the saying time flys when your having fun and he came up to me all funny and sweet, full of kindness and then on 15th August 2013 we went to pick up a puppy together and when we got home we was in the back yard and he said do you want to put the puppy's new collar on and he went inside to go get it and he took a while so I was just like why don't you just pop it on him and he kept saying no you can do it so when he finally came back with the collar I had my back to him and he passed the collar to my side and I grabbed it and noticed there was something on the collar that wasn't a tag... A diamond ring I turned around and he was on one knee and said "Samantha Rebecca Abbott, I have never met anyone like you and you are the light of my life, I want you to be my forever and always, will you do me the honour of becoming my wife."
I of course said yes and on 17th May 2014 we tied the knot... Literally and we had a small backyard garden wedding.
We have been married now for 16 months and we have had our ups and downs, we have laughed, we have cried and I put it down to us still learning the ropes of this whole marriage thing. I do things that seriously annoys him and vice versa but through it all even though in anger I have said things I regret and so has he we have never truely stopped loving each.
He IS my forever and always; my lover, my best friend, my equal, my partner. He is the sunshine on a rainy day and he says I am him ... He even got me a mug with it on :) the road ahead will be hard but there is no one in this universe I would rather share it with.
We by no means think of ourselves as experts but if we could give any advice for newly weds or couples in general... Don't ever forget that communication is key and never forget that the relationship is between you and them and don't worry about comparing your relationship to other people's relationships no two people are alike and by doing this your making things unfair for yourselves. You are with your partner for your reasons alone and love them for their perks and their flaws. NO ONE IS PERFECT!